This looks like fun so I am going to jump in...
1) i think the internet business model will actually save high end audio, its just that the conversion looks awful scary and it will take time for the critical mass to build again virtually just like it did physically when we all hung out at the local hifi shop.
2) Most the of high end, the products, the publications, and the personalities are no different than any other industry... mostly absurd, no one really cares, and the sooner we all admit that most of us get turned on by the exotic materials, obsessive engineering, and exclusive knowledge of how this all comes together, the less anxious we will become in knowing that normal people just don't care and never will.
3) If you are going to defend the actual "music" element of this pursuit, you should also admit that for every moment you and your family (or friends) have had dancing, singing, or simply listening together to your hifi system (I hope you all get at least a few, they are just so great...), you have probably had just as many moments in the car, on some most average car audio system, where you all had every bit as much fun.. and that in my mind is the crux of this issue. After all is said and done, what level of resolution is required for us to share in the primal joy of music? I think the iPod holds much truth, and when you switch from phones to speakers, is it really more resolution that the average person will want or perhaps just a more physical experience - bass you can feel, dynamics that will startle you, a lack of background noise... probably those things much more than stable imaging, true timbre, cohesive transitions between drivers with perfect phase...
4) We all enjoy the extra mile, and wonder why everyone else doesn't go the extra mile, while everyone else just thinks we need to try some new hobbies. The high end "package" is all wrong, and niche players on the net will evolve into groups, forums, links, and eventually packages that make nice first steps from the iPod to the car, from the iPod to the bedroom, from the iPod to the living room (or family room, or media room, or whatever... but I think just like the album jacket gave us something to mark our memory back in our own day, associated video imagery will be what helps the next generation, which means that home theater, an equally frustrating topic, is a required context for the next generation audiophile, not for 7.1 channel surround, but for the smooth integration of information, visualization, followed by the pleasant auditory stimulation.
5) I hate Bose, but they are practical where we are at times pathetic, .... good design, adequate sound, lifestyle harmony in the house... yes I think people will do more, and will appreciate better sound, but stereophile Class A or B ain't gonna be where it is at for them. Think smaller steps, think better integration with devices already in the home, think better value...
So now let me admit that this is all so slanted to my own limited experiences, but that I also believe the future of high end audio is in not trying so hard to be high end, and instead trying to much more simply enhance what is already in our lives/homes/cars. Bringing new people into our industry is not about showing them what we do, but in starting with what they do. And Martin is right, the BS in this business does nothing but distract those serious about true mass market aspirations, no one not already in this 12 step program of ours gives a sh*&t about $1000 dollar CD players let alone $10,000 players. I can watch really good TV for 3k, and do really good computing for 3k, and get well set up for most hobbies for 3k, audio for more than 3k is not really meant for anyone except those who need to have bragging rights or those who just want to dive in so deep there is no coming back. I am in that latter category, but trying real hard to think of a business plan that centers around delivering real satisfaction for 3k. So that is my answer... bring them in by first meeting them right where they stand (they won't meet you half-way), offer baby steps that are real noticeable, highly integrated, and peak at a 3k investment point, then just wait for the normal 2% addiction rate that can't control themselves and we will have a few more new faces on this site typing away!
Regards,
Greg Jensen