If I had it to do all over again... well, actually, I am doing it all over again, and after going through all kinds of speakers, amps, sources, SS, tube, new, vintage, I'd do what I'm doing now.
Simple, low power, high quality single ended tube amps (el84 and 300b), tube preamp, a good tube NOS dac, a modded oppo player, and efficient and musical single driver speakers with bass augmentation. Couple that with good resonance control and quality copper cabling and as simple a signal path as possible, and I've nver been closer to the music. But my priorities lie with what I like to call the 3 Ts -- Tone, Timing, and Transparency With good detail, and reasonable soundstaging, imaging, and dynamics. I don't need kick you in the gut bass or the ability to recreate a rock concert or full scale orchestra in my listening space.
Even the most outrageously expensive, cost-no-object systems don't sound anything like live to me, so for me, a system that concentrates on bringing the essence of the music to me is what I'm after, and have finally found. Of course the usual disclaimer of my ears, my musical tastes, my room, etc., all apply and are surely different from what I prceive to be typical audiophile priorities.
Nobody's right and nobody's wrong, and I think it's great that we can all find things that work for us and manufacturers that support us.
-- Jim