Hey Doug. Your description above completely alters the term "neutral." Electronic neutrality = accurate and unadulterated signal path from source to loudspeaker. You get whatever the recording engineer chose to put onto the recording with nothing added by the system that is not already there.
I have to agree. Neutral is neutral. Nothing added, nothing gained. If you blur the meaning of neutral, then there is no baseline to reference from. It becomes entirely subjective. Then we are
all screwed.

The problem (again) stems from the recordings. There are no perfect recordings (there are really good ones however). There is no perfect mic that is perfect for every application. Just go onto
any recording studio website and you will find a page that lists their microphone inventory. The list is usually long. Same with mic pre-amps, and Eq's, compressors etc... They usually have tens of thousands of dollars invested (usually much more) in mics, pre's and Eq's etc...
All these are used to subjectively color the sonic capture of the musical event at the discretion of whomever...
With these tools you can make a snare drum sound like a piece of paper being crumpled, all the way to a gunshot.
Mics are rarely chosen for a particular situation because of their (neutrality or faithfulness), quite the contrary, they can vary wildly in how they sound. They are chosen for what they do to the capture of the musical event, and it's use given the context of the particular recording. Certain instruments or performers will be miked to be prominent, while others are miked to be more in the background. Any yes, mics are often chosen to make things sound "more musical and rich".
The saying in the studio goes, "
he who Eq's less, Eq's best". Mic selection is critical, as is mic placement. You can spend untold hours trying to fix something that wasn't recorded well, and sometimes not at all.
Cheers