I may be able to help with the questions about balanced connection, since I bought a pair of TVC transformers from Nicholas and put them into boxes and wired them (true balanced) myself. The advice from Nicholas was to wire them as autoformers, with the upper winding for the + signal and the lower for the - signal. In an autoformer the output is a tapping off the same winding as the input. So, one end of the upper winding goes to the +input, the other end goes to earth, and the tappings go to the switch and thence to the + output. Similar for the lower, -ve winding.
A single-ended RCA output can be derived from a balanced out by simply using the + signal and earth (and optionally earthing the - signal).
I have only seen pictures of an actual Promitheus TVC, so I don't know if the above corresponds to the way ther real thing is wired or not. I got the impression from Nicholas that his method of wiring them has changed over time.
Hope this helps.