Ed,
Actually, the same thing happened to me, twice. I finally learned that after cutting the main pieces (fronts and sides) but before cutting any driver holes to stand them up side by side with the fronts facing me.

With the pieces in this position, label each piece for orientation (top, front, left, right (or inside/outside whatever works for you) so you don't get anything mixed up when you take them down to start glue up. Also mark where you want the driver openings to be. This way you will have your mirror image with the driver orientation the way you want it (in my case I wanted the inside drivers on the bottom.
Instead of taking the first pair apart I cutout enough pieces for two more figuring I'd end up with two mirrored pairs. Well, I didn't mark the pieces well enough and after gluing up the first one realized I now had three identical cabinets

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This is when I thought about standing them up side by side then marking everything. I did get the fourth cabinet the way I wanted it so I had my mirrored pair. Of course I also have an identical pair glued up out in the garage. Once I get some spare time I'll cut the material for two more cabinets and make sure they are opposite the two I have. That way I'll have two completed pairs of cabinets.
These 12" dual cabinets are really tricky, not like the 3 x 8" wedge cabinets. With the 8" cabinets you can just glue them up. No need to worry about orientation until you are ready to attach the plinths and/or the block for the Neutrik connector. Once you get the main cabinets glued up you stand them up next to each other and they will either be in the mirror image orientation you want or not. If they are fine. If not, all you have to do is flip one of them upside down. Now attach the connector blocks and the plinths.
I naively thought the 12" cabinets would be this easy also.
Sorry for not mentioning this earlier. When I posted my thread on the 12" cabinets there didn't seem to be any real interest in them so I let it drop

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Mike