With a attitude like that, it's no wonder you don't get along with your brother in law. I bet he's a nice guy. 

Why not ask him? He'll agree!
At our wedding reception he told me "I'm STILL the favorite son-in-law!' I just glared at him.
When I mentioned that to my new MIL she said "Oh, he didn't get the memo?" I LOVE my MIL!
