I assume I'd know if that chassis connection is a good connection because if it wasnt, because Nampon is connected to it then the amp wouldnt produce a sound?
That is a somewhat dangerous assumption. nAMPON is very easy to drive, with a small DC current - thus the resistance and inductance between nAMPON and ground can be pretty high, and it would still work. AC ground noise, especially high frequency noise, is another matter.
Yes, you can use the smps mounting post as the main ground point, but in that case, I would still ensure the XLR connector is well grounded to the chassis, and I would ground pin 1 and the audio input cable sheath to the chassis as close to the XLR as possible. How is your XLR mounted? Using screws? Can you maybe use one of the mounting screws as a chassis contact point?
When you said normal wire what is that? I need to buy some of it for this IEC earthing to the SMPS. Can you send me a link?
Any normal electrical wire will do.
FINALLY so sorry for being so badly spoon fed here!!!!!!!!! I am so grateful for your time
No prob - glad to be able to help!