How can I keep from getting the edges too dark, especially when they have been rounded over?
Should I completely finish one side (put all the coats on I intend to) before moving to another side or should I put one coat on all sides before putting a second coat on any sides?
After I have started applying the finish, how do I protect a side with finish on it while working on another side?
Mike
I have for years avoided stain because of difficulties getting the color to come out even. But I'm going to give it a go with my current project.
Wiping the wood down with mineral spirits will give you some idea of how the wood will absorb the stain and finish. If you find some area - end grain in particular - that soaks it up a lot then you know those areas are going to do that with the stain. Sanding them to 220 (or 320) grit when the rest of the piece is sanded to 150 (or 220) might help.
From what I have heard a conditioner of some sort is usually necessary to get even color. One suggestion was to wet the piece with mineral spirits, wipe off the excess, and then immediately apply the (oil based) stain. The idea is that the mineral spirits "fills up" the thirsty areas.
I am going to try some stain conditioner that is stocked at Lowes. I don't recall the brand.
If I were looking for the best chances of getting the best results I would use the products and advice from Charles Neil:
http://www.cn-woodworking.com/ I would probably start by buying one of his DVDs on finishing.
My guess is that any conditioner will be much better than no conditioner. I suspect Charles got into producing his wood conditioner because he found the available products unsatisfactory in some way.
The other thing to keep in mind is that people who turn out projects with great finishes usually test things out on scraps from the build to fine-tune the procedure before doing the project. If you practice on scraps you will probably get better results than if you "learn" on your project.