Okay, maybe I'm nuts (been called worse...

) but I absolutely loved this movie. You guys who think the movie was about "tall tales" are a bit off the mark, IMO. I think it's more about our imperfection as humans and a son realizing that his father, although flawed, had a lot of value and that he was more like his father than he originally thought. Uh oh, that may be considered a "spoiler" for someone who hasn't seen it. DONT READ PAST THIS LINE IF YOU HAVEN'T SEEN THE MOVIE. The ending moved me to tears, something that hasn't happened since I checked my wife's last credit card bill...

Not to get too philosophical, but I thought the message was good and very true: there are many ways to "know" a person and you may never find them unless you take the time and make an effort look for them. In the end, the main character finally "knew" his father, even though it was by different means than he would have chosen and understood how similar they were as people.
I can't think of a movie I enjoyed more than Big Fish, in years. I have seen several of the movies mentioned above and most of the critically acclaimed movies of the last coulple years like Lost in Translation (which I thought was VERY slow and just okay), LOTR, etc., but none were as rich and as well done as Big Fish. Tim Burton is a briliant director (in my book at least) and this was his masterpiece. I immediately bought the movie.
If you like typical formula garbage or the same old crap and fake sentimentality that Hollywood has dished out for the last couple decades, you will probably not like this one. If you watch with an open mind, you may enjoy this well crafted and well done movie.
As someone else says on this site, it's only my opinion...I could be wrong!
Jack
I thought that Finney was unlikable throughout, even when dead.
PS- that was a major part of the message. If his father was "warm and fuzzy" he would have been more accessable and easier to understand. It probably would not have been as good a story, however. His dad was surly, a total blowhard/story-teller who was not immediately accessable or easy to like. It took the guy his whole life to see the "good" in his father's actions. The method in which he told the story of the father's life (by his stories) was also very clever because the stories contained some truth (along with a lot of un-truth). Plus, the "un-truth" part of the story revealed something about his father that he didn't see until the end.