b, get yerself a second sub, & a quality outboard active x-over. run i/c's from the pre to the x-over input, hi-pass to the main speakers' amps & lo-pass to the subs line (amp) inputs. yust set the subs' x-over point to its highest setting, which should be quite a bit higher than yer active x-overs' setting. this will take it out of the equation
one of the major adwantages to subwoofing, imo, is that the monitors will almost always sound better when relieved of having to play the lowest octaves. and, an active a-over like a marchand, for example, will also likely be far more transparent than any x-over built in to even the most spendy powered subs. also, it's been my experience that a single sub will almost always degrade the soundstaging, while a pair of subs will almost always *improve* it...
if i had to run only one sub, i would set its x-over point as low as possible, & place it in the *exact* center of the monitors. this will offer the least degradation to soundstaging, which i'd gladly take in trade over other locations that mite offer more bass output. to maximize bass output, move the sub forward/backward along the line that's centered between the monitors.
ymmv,
doug s.