Meanwhile, back at the starting point of high-end gear reliability.... aa
I worked for almost nine years for a well known mid-fi/home theater retailer in New England selling Marantz, HK, Pioneer (at one point), Onkyo and Sony. Like all salemen in that scenario, accomodations for sales is common and utilized, especially by me. This covered the time frame of DVD just getting started. My first player, a 2nd generation Sony was bullet-proof. I gave it to my daughter and replaced it just to get the DTS capability from the new (way more expensive) Marantz. Total piece of junk. Lasted me less than a year before it started skipping, not reading brand new discs etc. Sent it back to Marantz, 8 weeks later they shipped it back....SSDD.

Still had the same problems. Got a spiff for a Sony jukebox 200 cd changer. Worked great for about 4 months. It stopped sensing discs. Took in into the local Sony service/distribution center. Five months and multiple phone calls later they shipped me a brand new unit with a note stating that they couldn't find out why the first one didn't function properly. I sold the new unit without ever opening the box.
My point - its not high end issues, its everywhere. High end, mid-fi, boom boxes. The high-end buyer is just more (usually) articulate and vocal because of the $'s involved. The guy with the boom box just pitches it, spends $30-60 and gets a new one.
My 2 channel gear is where I spend the most money and even then I tend to be cautious. I know that there are many credible, honest and hard working vendors out there with good products. I tend to stay with the larger ones because it does not rely on just 1 or 2 people to solve an issue. Earlier in this thread it was mentioned that a reason for a lack of a fast response was the guy in charge was at the Munich show. If he wants to grow, the vendors have to be at the big shows. Be visible or die, real simple.
That's why my pricey toys are from Cary and Manley. The big guys can go to the shows and demo their latest and greatest, but service and support are still available to those that need it. That said, my Cary SLI-80 has never done anything strange and my Manley issues turned out to be tube related and that was diagnosed with a phone call to a most excellent service/call-in center. Maybe my toys don't qualify as high end by some standards here at AC, but they sound damn fine to me and serve me well.
Walt