I suggest the jitter-believers should propose the test, otherwise we'll be back and forth forever.
Darren
Very simple. Find a player (not the ones that cost $10000

) with electrical and toslink digital outputs.
Connect a cheap coax cable to the electrical output
Connect a Glass toslink to the toslink output.
Connect both to a DAC that does not have any jitter reduction builtin (for eg. Lavry DA10 disqualifies)
Now switch between the two outputs.
Ofcourse, some people may not notice any difference between the two.
I can tell the difference with a stock Squeezebox (I can take the test in SF Bay Area).
(BTW, I stumbled upon jitter accidentally. I was initially running a MSB Link DAC with a cheap toslink, thinking digital is digital and how can a cable make a difference. Somebody gave a Acoustic Zen digital cable and voila the difference was too stark. Later I read about SPDIF and jitter).
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PS: This is why I said at the beginning, I just avoid S/PDIF. 
You are probably right in one way, but single box players are difficult to execute (from an electrical design point of view). It probably is simpler/easier with say, the Squeezebox and probably explains the popularity of the 'analog mods' done by boldercables.com to it.
Anyways, there is no such thing as 'belief in jitter'. It is real, it is measured and it can systematically be reduced. Lots of designs/mods exist for it. Just like anything in audiophilia, it is all relative. Things get difficult to hear as you keep improving the quality of your system. As for me, I might spend $2k to eliminate jitter in my system. But I may not spend $20K on a 'perfect' player.