Cooch,
Here's the story, and I hope it answers your questions -- or at least the ones I feel competent enough to answer.
I bought the TBI when I had a set of Horn Shoppe horns -- I didn't have any corners and felt that in my room with 9 foot ceilings, that there was just nothing below 75 Hz or so, and while I don't require tons of bass, I do prefer something at around 40 Hz as a minum bottom end. I was never able to get the sub to integrate seamlessly with the Horns -- it was ok, but the Horns are so articulate and image so well that just about anything added will detract from that. So, I found that no matter how much I tried, the soundstage would collapse, the imaging would suffer, or something else about the sound picture as a whole was just not quite right with the subs. That is not to say that there is any issue with the TBI -- and I suspect that if anything would have worked it would have been the TBI or one of the other smaller, sealed subs, and I also knew that because of the situation I had that a variable phase control would be needed to do the job correctly. I didn't have any corners or places near the listening position to place the sub in, so I can't comment on whether or not a variable phase control is necessary in that application.
Then along came Abby... A neighbor had got a pair of Abbys on loan from a local dealer, and as it turned out she didn't like them in her setting, so with another week left on the demo loan we brought them over to my place and I ended up buying them. I tried the same things with the Abbys and the TBI and then decided that the Abbys had enough bass for me and that the sub was not worth the compromises to the presentation as a whole, and after a year or more of debating about it, I sold the TBI.
Then I bought a pair of Revolutions from Louis to use in my living room (main system) and then a few months ago bought a AV123 ULW-10 sub to augment the bottom end, then all hell broke loose... Along came one of those once in a lifetime deals that I just could not pass up and now there is a pair of Adagios in my living room and the Revolutions got moved to the office system, along with the AV123 sub, and the Abbys are up for sale.
I only hooked up the Revolutions for the first time the other day, and for one thing I know I'm not going to need this sub at all -- in fact you'll probably see it up on the trading post shortly. The other surprise is that The Revolutions may even be too much for this space -- only about 140 square feet, and with me only about 6 feet from the speakers. So now I'm also, and extremely reluctantly, considering selling them too (which I discussed with Louis just yesterday) and replacing them with a pair of XRS's. I'm going to do some more experiments with placement, tilt, etc, but right now with an 8 watt tube amp it is just overpowering the room.
Anyway, back to the original topic, that's my experience with subs, and after I sell this one, I don't see myself getting another anytime soon -- the Adagios certainly don't need them. So that's about all I feel qualified to answer, and why I even opened my mouth in the first place -- because I've tried this thing of integrating a fast sub with fast, articulate single-driver speakers, and to my ears I just didn't find the added bottom end worth the sonic compromises elsewhere. So, think of it as a tale of my experiences as opposed to a blanket recommendation -- your system should be what you want it to be.
-- Jim