I guess I would belong to the latter group. For me, the ultimate goal of my audio system is to give me pleasure and enjoyment. And since that pleasure and enjoyment comes largely (though not exclusively) from sound, then yes, it must sound good to me. To put it another way, I don't serve the audio system. The audio system serves me. Which is why I can never quite fathom the position of the former, who, from my perspective, are serving their audio systems.
Steve Eddy,
I would belong to the former group. My personal goals are that I want my audio to faithfully reproduce the recording. Primarily because I am using my gear in a recording situation. I want the least audio coloration from the playback system as possible.
Ironically, it's so I can hear better the differences in colored things, particularly microphones, mic placement, phase anomolies , eq manipulations, and so on.
I can't at the end of the day, go home and listen to a system that exhibits, or imparts coloration, or softens the sound, etc.... It would make me nuts.
So, I guess it boils down to your personal philosophy, and your agenda. There are people who enjoy a clinical sound, not necessarily for the same reasons I would, and there are people who enjoy a sound that's based on personal preference ( extended highs, extended lows, up front, laid back, soft, lush, punchy, etc...)
I'm also a guitar player who plays vintage gear and love the imperfections and idiosyncracies they impart.
In recording, the rules are.....there are no rules. If it sounds good, it is good. Period. Same with the music itself. If it sounds good, it is good. Period.
Enjoy the music.
Just my two cents.
Cheers