Thanks fellas.
Danny has some 100uF JB JFX that are a good cap. The 56uF cap is an important to sound quality. The big bundle spot not so much, but I am still going to get rid of the electrolytic - because it is the decent thing to do... C'mon - it's worth it. Buy it once.

Bottom line, I am fairly certain I have found the solution - this morning.
Tyson, I was looking at doing "all Duelund"... because it seems to sound good and "cool" for external crossover "oh cool look at all the Duelund". JDM-PP on the big bundle in 100uF, then CAST-PP on the 56uF (and maybe even try some CAST-PP on the tweeter vs Sonicap... or just compare).
It's been interesting. I have reached out about 3 major brands. Unfortunately(or is it?) the stuff from Denmark is not gonna work out.
On the other hand... another vendor was EXCITED to help out... and provided some VERY thoughtful feedback and even a creative way to do custom values for the big bundle, and they are HAPPY TO DO IT. I... I... almost felt like a "customer" and that they "wanted to earn my business" - instead of it sort of feeling like they would be "doing me a favor to sell you our product, if you buy 250".
I am working with that enthusiastic vendor on something else that would be very cool, but for one thing or another, they are going to get my business.
If it works out and you see how it will match for both Sonicap AND "Copper Foil"... and getting the bigger sizes that are needed, I think it makes a lot of sense.
When it gets sorted out, I'll get it sorted out.
Resistors will be PATH doubled up for extra power handling. 4x Path resistors... "why are big, great speakers so expensive?..."