LOL for the Ikea chair. That is what you see pictured below. I have this on order and althogh it is leather, it is soft leather:
https://www.potterybarn.com/products/raylan-leather-armchair/?catalogId=84&sku=3313847&cm_ven=PLA&cm_cat=Google&cm_pla=Furniture%20%3E%20Chairs®ion_id=751260&cm_ite=3313847_14546951700&gclid=EAIaIQobChMIqL2diLKj-QIVC_nICh3lmwqIEAQYAiABEgIiNfD_BwEI like the diffusors, thanks, will consider.
The shades used as a diffusor is a great idea. Will also consider but probably won't be wife approved - maybe.
Below is a pic from a few days ago. Rug will be here on Friday and curtains are here and just need to be hung - may add shades if wife approves. Since it is the LR wife approval is part of this and proving even more difficult than I thought.
I'm still working on "approval"

for the following but here is what I'm thinking:
-ASC 16" tube traps in the two front corners
-??? behind the speakers and in front of the curtains which are in front of the glass. Maybe the diffusors mentioned above, maybe somehing from Gik or other but has to look really nice, as do everything.
-GIK 242 custom image panels on the walls for 1st reflections
-back wall - this is tricky because about 40% of it is open although there is drywall behind the seating position which is about 6' from my chair. Also tricky is that whatever I put on the wall cannot be more than 2" thick. maaaybe 3". May just do another GIK 242 w/ custom graphics or a canvas print.

Btw, room is approx 19' wide x 22' long x 12' ceiling height. She already told me no "cloud".
On that note I went ahead and ordered Focal headphones last night, which will probably get more use than the M3s unfortunately. The house is very open so M3s will only get listened to when she is out of the house - although I am thinking about sound proofing (as much as posible) the MBR door so I can listen to at lower levels at night.