Thanks again for everyone's help and advice.
For starters, I moved some components to get a little more slack in my sub intereconnects. That let me bring the mains out to about 65 inches from the front wall. I'm about 25 inches from the side walls, with a little toe in, and testing different distances there. There certainly was some improvement when I added, well, it was over a foot, of distance from the front. I really like the sound of the vocals, round and full, but now a bit more precise, which I like.
I'm going to continue with some more placement. I may end up having to bite the bullet and order longer rca's. I have a split from the source, and 36" rca's going to the sub amps, which are connected to the mains with a neutrix connector, which is at the end of about 20" of cable. Now, I'm wishing my wall hardware was on the left side. If I move the rack over, two outlets, a cable line, and a port for in-wall cables to the tv will really be an eye sore. But I do think getting a two shelf rack that stretches farther to the side will be my next step. And of course, trying some treatments.
I would like to build a rack and my own treatments, but those probably need to wait until after I get to more of the projects on my wife's list

Again, I really appreciate you taking the time to walk me through ideas. I thought 4 feet was good, and didn't think outside the box that even more distance from the front wall would change the sound.

Side note, I find it interesting how my music sounds through a better stereo. I have lots of cds, and I am surprised when I hear how different they sound, or how some recordings are just not good, with more revealing components.
Ben