I'm not afraid of going to fleabay, but there are many choices (looking at rhodium)
It sounds vain, but they should also look nice (eliminates rean, industrial brands like amphenol).
Here, I'm looking at neutrik pro-fi, but at about $18/pair they arent cheap.
I currently use canare rcap (dont like) and some partsexpress/dayton (ok).
I'm staying away from the ridiculous like furutech, wbt and the like.
Thanksl