I can suggest some things regarding refinishing. If you want to keep the front baffle "natural" you have to undertand what happens with wood. It will all darken with time regardless of the type of wood. This happens because of oxidation and light (mostly ultraviolet, but not all). So the trick is to keep out both if possible.
We have all seen varnished windows or siding that had peeling. This is not usually due to a failure of the finish as is commonly thought, but the degredation of the lignin in the wood that causes it to delaminate at the finish/wood interface. That is caused by the ultraviolet rays penetrating the finish.
Your indoor situation can be solved in a variety of ways. First off, you cannot get the correct finish at a big box store or at a normal paint store. And, other than the voc's so called "water based" paint is also toxic, just usually not as nice a finish.
If you can stand just a little yellowing, Park's urethane floor finsh (oil based only) works wonders. Home Depot used to carry it, but not in California.
Of course, you can use automotive paint like Wilson and others do, but that requires a compatible primer. The automotive clear coat works wonders and requires a hardener and a spray gun. I no knowledge if it can be sprayed on raw wood. It is, of course, uv resistant and hard as nails.
Sanding sealers are used to fill pores and even out the grain for more even staining. If you want the raw look, it is not required.
Now, for your situation, if you do not have a sprayer (HVLP being best) you need to look into a high quality waterbase that will do the job. And this is where the specialty houses come in. I have not used any of the products since the middle 90's, but even back then we used sprayable clear coats that dried harder in 30 minutes than cured oil based finishes ever did (one part types). The technology has to be better today. Because they cured so fast then, we had no option but to spray.
Here is a good place to start:
www.thefinishingstore.com They are connected somehow with Apollo sprayers, and we always used what our Apollo rep suggested. This will give you what you want. You could probably brush and sand the primary coats with no problem.
Of course, doing the prep yourself and finding someone at a body shop that does side work to spray the final coat would be best. Then you have no issues with dust.
Good luck.