scotty, i agree it's much easier to match a preamp to a system than an amp - tube or s/s, imo. the amp/speaker interface is always critical.
for me, i do not worry about whether or not a tube amp can do bass, i have had subwoofers, actively crossed to mains for ~15 years now. subs driven by s/s amps, of course! 
doug s.
What I've noticed is that there is a overall synergy to a system, and everything plays a big part. No question that the speaker/amp combination is huge, as highly regarded amps and speakers may not sound good together. Bob Carver called it "sonic transfer function", and is extremely important.
What surprised me was just how much the preamp can improve the overall system. Believe me, I've had LOTS of different preamps (tubed and solid state) over the years, and just recently have come to appreciate just how much the preamp can improve the oveall playback chain.
The impedance match from the preamp to the amp can also make a difference (it is sometimes overlooked).
There really is no one right answer here. It's whatever works in your given application.