Not really related to the bass and the sub, but you could pull the left, center and right speakers closer to the front edge of the table, TV and table, respectively.
The sub should give you more bass in that corner. Maybe angle the ladder over it to make the wife happy. When you set the sub to 150 Hz, Denon to 80 Hz and speakers small, what boost/cut settings did the setup determine? You might try inching the sub's level up and rerunning the Denon's setup.
Your wife might not like it, but another option is to stack another PDR8 on top of the one you have now.