The 100,000 is very thick. If I were you I'd wipe it all out and start over. As Mr P has stated time and time again, Mr F has figured all this out for us. Deviate at your own peril.
Yes. Paddle, ball, your big toe, everything in the middle. If that's off you might as well own a VPI.
And regarding damping, once all is filled, and centered correctly, then it's your cup that you adjust, by ear. Get that Allen key out. Again, after your arm is parallel, etc .
Get the real goo. That Aussie goo sounds bad from here.