Well, the last 24 hrs has been an interesting audio journey. These X-LS definitely need 4-6db more power to run than my other speakers at an equivalent listening level. My Polk RTi 12s are listed at 90db sensitivity, so that's not too far off from the difference I'm measuring (87 for the X-LS).
I was discouraged at first thinking maybe I'd done something wrong with the build, but when I finished the 2nd speaker and heard that it was exactly the same, I decided I need to go do some real critical listening to see what I had just created.
Finished set:

My wife and I listened to the AR 206 HOs, Polk RTi12's and the X-LS side by side.

To make a long story short, we have basically been acclimated to bad sounding speakers over the years, so that we didn't understand at first how good the X-LS actually sounded. The X-LS have a huge sound stage compared with the ARs, and a much warmer tone with solid, punchy bass. No matter how loud I cranked them, I wasn't getting the same ear fatigue I've experienced with my Polks and ARs.
Now this may come as a surprise, considering the ultra high-end crossover, 1/2" particle board construction, and no bracing or dampening material that comprise the AR 206 HOs. But it's true, the X-LS did sound better than this speaker, even though the X-LS it requires a few more watts.

What is most disconcerting, is that the X-LS, while not having as much base, are more enjoyable to listen to, than the Polk RTi12's which I shelled out $800 or so for several years ago. I wasn't expecting that when I purchased this kit. I thought I was just going to get a nice set of garage speakers.