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http://www.audiocircle.com/index.php?topic=59784.msg531999#msg531999"ALWAYS keep a clean tip on your soldering iron and tin it before making your solder joints. If you have the budget for it, purchase a Weller "controlled temperature" soldering station, rather than a Radio Shack el-cheapo! You will spend less time, and get MUCH better results - results that will last and last! Keep a damp sponge handy to clean the tip of your iron. If you are using the Weller "controlled-temperature" soldering station, they make it easy by including a good sponge, and the tray to put it in. USE it - OFTEN. Then "tin" the tip after it's clean. Over the years, I have "standardized" on this procedure:
1. Turn on the iron and bring it up to temperature.
2. As it warms up, clean the tip against the sponge until it shines!
3. "Tin" the tip by applying solder. Place the iron in the holder.
4. When it's time to make your solder joint, clean the tip against the sponge.
5. Re-tin the tip of the iron.
6. Apply the tip of the iron to the work.
7. Place the solder against the opposite side of the work from the tip of the iron.
8. Allow the solder to flow over the joint and remove the solder.
9. THEN remove the iron from the work.
10. Clean the tip of the iron.
11. Re-tin the tip of the iron and place it in the holder.
Repeat steps 4 through 11 as necessary. When your "soldering session" is completed, clean the tip of the iron again. Re-tin the tip of the iron and place it in the holder. THEN turn the soldering station off and allow it to cool. If you do all this, you'll stand a MUCH better chance of winding up with solder joints that are clean and shiny, not crystalline and dirty. If you DO wind up with a crystalline appearance to a solder joint, do it again! "Cold" solder joints are the most common reasons why a project like this fails."