I agree with all your comments in blue, Russell. Its not the fault of the speaker that the recording is bad; its the fault of the recording. I do, however, think rollo agrees with most of what you said. I also think Russell said many peoples logic is fundamentally flawed because they try to make the flawed recording sound better by purchasing flawed speakers, or by using tone controls/EQ above the Schroeder Frequency. Two flaws don't make a right, but I guess if you think it sounds better then that's all that matters.
It actually sounds like you both agree with each other more often than not.
IMO, the speakers and recording are the most important pieces of audio reproduction. Get those, the room and the source player right, and the rest is easy. YMMV.