Several seconds??? no, mine comes on instantly.
I had the same reservations as you, but I only use mine for HT (not 2 channel) and concert DVD's.
Does yours take 30 seconds to go to sleep, or 8 seconds?
The older ones took 8 seconds. The factory will upgrade yours to 30 seconds if you wish, any more than that and they claim they will run too hot.
Mine has the 8 second sleep mode and I have never had a problem with mine not coming out of sleep immeadiately.
Try it and see.
Your worries are much ado about nothing.
How does yours sound so far?
What is the rest of your system?