I myself prefer a material that puts a super thin, non-resonant gasket between the driver and cabinet, and then use brass screws for mounting.
I am just starting to experiment with gore-tex gasketing material myself, and although quite expensive, is probably nowhere near as expensive as the stuff Von Schwiekert is using, and probably more easily avaialable, but still not exactly something you can pick up at parts express or your local hardware store.
I'll report back when I've had a chance to compare this on my horns -- first using the standard thin foam gasket supplied with the driver, then the thicker gaskets that come with the Fostex grille kit, and finally the gore-tex gasket.
Note, for this to work properly both the driver flange and mounting surface of the speaker should be clean, flat, and very smooth -- i.e, wet sanded lacquer on the speaker and the hollow driver flange filled with epoxy and sanded smooth.
-- Jim