Felipe,
That was a saga, I'm so sorry it took so long, very painful. And you are right about the boat.......
I can't recommend anyone except Harbuch, did you use them? They are evidently too tall?
You can get away with a 150VA, if that is any help. Have a look at the Nuvotem series from RS Components. They may have a suitable toroid. I think you would not find an EI, either, so you must search for a toroid.
Can anyone suggest any European supplier? Someone in Germany, perhaps?
Cheers,
Hugh