Can't speak for Dared, no idea why they can't sell you an amplifier. If they can't provide a list of dealers to you, then they should sell it to you direct, because it's clearly the right thing to do. This happens to companies that apparently don't actually want to sell things.
Red Wine Audio, run by Vinnie Rossi, is an example of an audio company with lots of business sense. Here are some examples of smart things that Vinnie does:
1. He only announces pricing of product when he has availability of product.
2. He only announces availability of product when he can deliver product. Sometimes it's a 3 day wait, and sometimes it's a 6 week wait, no doubt somewhat dependent on the current ebb and flow of orders and resources.
3. He doesn't have an endless series of upgrades, preferring to spend more time up front to deliver the final product. If a product is going to be replaced, it's not a minor change, but a major one. Some audio manufacturers have a new upgrade for the same product (new caps, new rectifier, new power supply) multiple times in a year, or within months after release of the first iteration.
4. Whenever it makes sense to do so, he provides an upgrade path, giving you full credit for the previous component. This keeps used RWA components off Audiogon as much as possible, drives new customers in the door, and keeps old customers returning.
5. Discounts for returning customers. For example, 10% off his preamplifier if you already own his amplifier. Once again, he's trying to make it easy for old customers to keep coming back.
6. A professonal web site. Clean design, very informative, provides links to additional resources, and you can check-out via a PayPal shopping cart. No need to email Vinnie to request up to date pricing, no need to get his PayPal email address -- just click a button and be on your way.
7. Whenever he releases a new product, he's sure to line up at least a couple of reviewers. More than a couple of audio manufacturers have said to me "I don't want my stuff reviewed as a bad review can ruin you." Indeed it can, but avoiding reviewers altogether I think is not the answer either.
8. Emails from Vinnie are always short and to the point. He doesn't waste your time with long emails and he doesn't try to be your friend.
9. Vinnie does his best to set the right expectations. Under-promising and over-delivering is *much*, *much* preferable to over-promising and under-delivering. He once told me it would take 6 weeks to deliver a unit to me, and indeed it did take 6 weeks. I was hoping for 4, and he could have told me 4, but then he would have been wrong and I would have been disappointed.