Not to throw a wrench into things, but as an audio synesthete, when I go to a hifi show I remember not the sound so much as the "image" of the sound. I could describe to you what Let it Be "looks" like on a $500k Audio Note system, but the sound not so much. Same goes for my past systems - my visual memory dominates, and I can only reconstruct a description of sonic qualities from the stored images.

On systems that I presently own, my ears/brain play as much of a role as my system does in determining the sound. Take a few weeks off of listening, or switch from one system to another, and it suddenly sounds like the voice of God herself.

Of course... in the long run, an objectively superior combination of components always seems to win my ears over.
BTW, I cannot tell the difference between tones absolutely, only relatively, but many musicians will have preferences on the order of 1Hz variations in tuning. Too many times I've heard musicians argue about whether 440 or 442Hz is optimal for "A". The same musicians do not significantly notice differences between reproduction systems - they hear through the "interface" and focus immediately on the music, likely recreating it as they wish it were.