MIKE,
I THINK YOU NEED TO EXPLAIN TO YOUR SON IN NO UNCERTAIN TERMS THAT LOUD MUSIC LISTENING AND ESPECIALLY THRU HEADPHONES WILL CAUSE PERMANENT, UNREPAIRABLE HEARING LOSS. IF HE LIKES MUSIC AND CAN'T DO SIGN LANGUAGE I HOPE THIS WOULD BE AN INCENTIVE.
YOUNG MAN, LISTEN TO YOUR DAD, WHILE YOU STILL CAN. WHEN YOU GET OLDER, YOU WILL APPRECIATE MUSIC MUCH MORE (HOPEFULLY) AND IF YOU SAVE YOUR EARS, YOU WILL HAVE MANY YEARS OF MUSIC LISTENING TO COME. IT'S ALSO FUN TO TALK TO YOUR FRIENDS AND NOT GO "WHAT" AT EVERYTHING THAT IS SAID.
WAYNER