I wouldn't call the Dynavector XV-1s (my current reference) aggressive.
I think if you want that, I'd look at the Lyra Titan...
Also less aggressive than the Lyra but way more than where you are
would be the MoFi 3.5C. This is a great cartridge in the direction you
are after.
If you buy one from Soundstage direct, you can use the TONEAudio
10% code....
All of the Clearaudio MC carts are a bit on the forward side too...
Let me know what you come up with!