I've always loved the music...but, I think for the past 30 years I think getting the right 'sound' has been a distraction to actually hearing the music. Knowing the distraction of this hobby...I even packed up my whole system for 6+ years to concentrate on new marriage, family and business matters 1994-2000.
Anybody else know what I mean?

I'm far more tolerant of different 'sounds' now...whether it is my aging ears losing HF extension or a generalized state of happiness in my life because of goals I've set out for myself or something else.....I can now enjoy the music despite whatever format, system, speakers, amps, cables, et al it's being played thru (two exceptions are early redbook efforts and today's mp3.....it veers too much from an actual performance to qualify as music to me).
Oh, I still very much hear the nuances that different components and systems give off...I simply care less about it and can concentrate on the performance, the music, now

It's wonderfully freeing to be here after 30 years.
Tommy, who is married to my niece in Washington DC is a professional stand-up bassist. When I lived there, we'd be over for something or another and he'd be playing some commercial CD or vinyl in the integrated budget record player it came with in his Emerson compact with cheapo speakers. I would say to him 'you're a musician, exposed to live music several times a week for decades now....how can you stand that thing?' He'd just shrug his shoulders and say he was focused on the music. I couldn't hear the music for the crapbox of components he was playing on, but to him my comment was simply nutz.
To him, music moved you or it didn't (he played classical and jazz only)...what it was played on had no bearing on whether you'd like it or not. I'm not sure I'm as far along as Thomas is in musical appreciation....but, at least I understand his point better now
The darn wacky Dakiom stabilizer on my CDP has me enjoying that in large measure now....and my vinyl front end sounds great. I can even appreciate FM, static, limited range and all, now.
May all of you
now in the nether hell of upgrade-itis find a path to musical bliss....it sure is more satisfying here than there.
I'm not done with eeking out more performance from my system - it's just that I'd be just okay if it stopped here and there was no more.
Anyhow, this happy rant may sound oddball for some of you, but for others it may strike the right cord at the right time in your lives. I feel like I just completed some 12 step program for addicts of something or another

Regards and bliss, John