I've said it before, but it bears repeating. There are safe ways to "cheat" your ground loop problem but cheater plugs aren't one of them. Read this...
http://sound.westhost.com/earthing.htmrefer to "Figure 3 - A High Current Safety Loop Breaker Circuit" for an example of how to safely lift a ground in your amps.
Also, Dan Banquer had an article that he wrote on the subject and copied it a few places. Its in the lab threads somewhere. It more or less explains the same thing in a slightly different angle. When you read the two of them it really helps clarify the issue.
The idea is you let your safety ground connect directly to your circuit ground/neutral in only one component (typically either your source or your preamp) and then you add the safety loop breaker (also called ying/yang diode thing) to the amps and other components. Isolate the RCA and other interconnect plugs so that they don't ground the return cable to the chassis. Viola, no ground loops through earthing.