Amen brother! It does feel good to have justification for your obsession.

I've had a few similar experiences. Occasionally, during particularly intense movie scenes from the corner of my eye I can see my wife turn her head my direction. When I look at her, her eyes are
WIDE open and mouth agape. "Wow, I feel like I'm right there in the middle of the action" she says.

Also, one of my many ebay purchases of 'lots' of CD's, my wife became the beneficiary of a few discs. They were artists that she had never heard of, but now rate among her favorites. I suppose giving her a few CD's now and then could be called "throwing her a bone".

Bob