Bunky,
I'll keep you and your family in my prayers; how fortunate that there were no injuries to you or family members.
I note that years ago my stepdaughter and I were almost killed in an apt. fire that an unknown fire bug set, a fire that consumed all our belongings. Drawing on what I learned from that ugly time, I encourage you: Take heart and know that things will improve; give it some time, keep your head up, and when it gets black, keep looking hard for the light. Start from knowing that you're all alive, and that there will be new memories to make and momentos to form. Again, know that it will get better.
Peace be with you and yours,
Dave B.