Yep........PE-65612. I think around $3-4. I would suggest that the Newava.......uh, I think 22083 is the right one.......from Digi-key is the best I have found.
On page 7 or so of The Lab index, there is a long thread about pulse transformers. I made measurements of both the Newava and PE ones.
Of course, wiring is critical for SPDIF. I believe in the SB3 mod thread, I show where bog-standard audio wire doesn't cut it.
The next step would be to stick a video op-amp in front of the RX chip, but I bet that is beyond your plans and/or skill level. Layout becomes critical for those.
Pat