Wow. That is an incredibly generous offer. I live in Baltimore and if I could find some time one weekend, I'd love to come and hear your setup. I have a pair of Merlin VSM-M. I have the upgraded Bam, but still would like to hear the lead free version of the VSM that you have. Ironically, I use a Music Reference RM-10 to power my Merlins and lately have been thinking of moving up to the RM-9. Of course I don't think I'd be able to afford the SE version of the RM-9, but still love to hear it. Might also give me a sense of whether the RM-9 is really the direction I want to go as I love the RM-10 so much. Anyway, if you'd like to PM me, we could exchange email addresses and see if I can coordinate a visit sometime down the road. Thanks so much.
By the way, you're (or anyone) more than welcome to come and hear my system as well, though mine is not nearly as SOTA as it sounds like yours is, but you're still welcome.