Bill,
Your last post helps to crystalise where you are likely to go with this combined system.
Some time ago, I went down the route of replacing my existing stereo with a good quality surround receiver based system thinking stereo had had its day. I then spent a lot of time money and effort over the years getting good stereo back but in the end, got tired of battling the compromises and separated out the stereo to a second room and now have two optimal systems. The only reason I say this is that there is some very good surround music out there and a cheap ‘non musical’ surround receiver will likely frustrate you after a time if you ever want to explore that area in a quality way. Yes, you are coming from the opposite direction to me in this but there are lots of difficulties (read expenses and frustrations) in trying to get a single system to do everything well. Not impossible, just very hard.
So my advice is go second hand if you can for a musical receiver. Particularly with retirement coming up, one can’t afford to go down an expensive dead-end. Arcam, NAD or Marantz would be my recommendations (for you to listen to and decide between) unless you need all the modern bells and whistles and HDMI 1.3 or HD etc.
Also, I personally would take up Hugh’s offer and make your judgement on the Soraya sooner rather than later. Much better in my opinion to have your strategic plans firmly in place as early as possible. It may also help with an early decision on your 'DEQX or not' path. Pity you are not down Melbourne way, would love you to be able to hear a Soraya in its natural environment, Hugh's place or mine.
As to the banana’s, Jaycar carry ordinary ones at a bit under $4 and quite good twist lock ones at a bit under $5. Word of caution though, I always add a layer of insulation to their otherwise gold metallic exteriors (I use appropriate size red/black shrinkwrap) as a short will kill many receivers completely though the Soraya is in another league here. Sooner or later, in fumbling a swap over after forgetting to turn something off, this is a possibility if it’s done everyday.