ur defntly a looser if u correct ppls spelling+grammer Brianem. dat 8nt kewl yo. Just look teh other way!

But seriously, let's face it; the most important things in life after your basic human needs are met are this:
KEYS
WALLET
I've often said that one of the greatest feelings in life is finding your lost wallet. It's really a shame that it is that way, but it is. And if you don't have your keys you're also screwed. That'll really ruin your day. Of course, these basic needs are always changing and relative to the individual and their place in the world. There might be a guy who fell off a boat right now and high on his list is breathing. Wouldn't care if all his material possessions vanished, all he wants is some nice dry air. There might also be a person having their leg chewed on by a grizzly bear in the woods. The breathing, food and water have been taken care of, but now it's all about keeping the remainder of your body in one piece. A poor person in the ghetto right now is bemoaning their poverty; can't pay the rent, car got repossessed, lost a job, but elsewhere an even poorer guy is living in a box with only a cart full of junk to his name. Then another fellow is all skin and bones, starving to death and crawling through the dirt. Elsewhere a wealthy person who has everything a man could want is feeling just as grief-stricken as the others when he learns he has terminal cancer. The point is, misery is relative. As much as we would like to suspend our own personal complaints to defer to the lower guy on the totem pole it is very difficult. If this were followed to the letter we may have a state where everyone in society is content and happy as long as they are not being drawn and quartered, broken on the wheel or melted with acid. But then again, maybe the man with a frostbitten leg being eaten by a polar bear ought to defer his bitching to the man whose caged face is being eaten by rats. Hmmm...