On a gross level you are correct, but on a finer level, small caps will pass high frequencies more transparantly (faster) than larger caps. Consequently, two 6s should sound more transparant than a 12, and that is the reason for bypassing. Some designers purposely stay away from large values prefering to stack many small caps in parallel. For bypasses, you ideally want to use a value of no more than 1/100th of the large value so as not to have too much spectral overlap in that the large cap will not be very transparant at the frequencies that the 1/100th value cap is passing. This varies from type to type so, as usual, experimentation is the key as long as you are using burned in caps for your experiments. Also, all else being equal, using caps of voltage ratings no larger than necessary will help minimize the negative effects of excess dialectric, sounding more transparant.