I took my spl meter to a Chili Pepper concert awhile back. The sound was terrible as it was in an arena, so I was major disappointed, but it showed me that a home stereo has an advantage over the real thing in terms of clarity and quality of the sound although it may lack live realism.
Anyways from where I was seated up in the rafters, the concert measured only around 95 db, much lower than I was anticapating. But when the crowd was cheering for an encore, it was a whopping 115 db. That's the kind of noise that can cause permenant ear damage. Fortunately I was wearing ear plugs.
At home I typically listen at about 92 db, more so when I'm in the mood to rock. Why because that's what most instruments emit their natural tonal characteristics at, some of coarse are louder but the vast majority is at the 92 db range. So its at this level that music sounds are natural and realistic without my brain having to compensate by making any mental adjustments for tonal charateristics, etc..
One argument I was making for home use was the scale used. From what I understand the 'A' scale is the standard measurement that most accurately reflects human hearing. So lets say you measure 92 db on a music passage. I know that's loud but it doesn't tell me how much bass your system is generating. Now if I use 'C' weighting and measure 110 db, that would indicate to anyone familiar with the scale that ones stereo is generating alot of bass even though on the 'A' scale it only indicating 92 db. You see how misleading that can be. It also doesn't indicate how much power is being used, as it takes way more watts to generate a 110 db 'C' weighted measurement.
I find with my best DTS recording, because of the detail in the recording that my speakers are working much harder. And after a few hours of play of this dts recording that one of my speaker tweeters was distorting. It was very hot to the touch and I suspect it was close to overheating. Not something I encountered before with any other recording. Also it took way more power. When I tried to push the db to 95 db, bar level, my amps would clip, indicating that there was no more reserve power. With a cd recording 95 db could still be acheived. So db readings can be misleading as well to how much power is being used, as detailed music requires more power in generating articulate bass.
Just my .02 cents