Steve - thanks for the info. can you be more specific when you say "lose some signal gain and some bandwidth." which bandwidth am I loosing and is the loose of signal gain uniform across whole bandwidth spectrum? Also, what do you need to do to increase impedance input? I'll ask Mike if he doesn't reply here shortly.
A good visual example is this frequency response plot of the Cary SLP-05 from the September, 2006 issue of Stereophile:

The plot is of the Cary driving loads of (from bottom to top at 100kHz) 600 ohms, 1k, 10k and 100k.
You may not notice any difference. Just explaining why makers of tube preamps recommend the minimum load impedances that they do.
As for increasing the amp's input impedance, depending on the amp, that could be as simple as replacing a 10k ohm resistor with a higher value resistor. But even if you made the amp's input impedance the same as your other amp, your preamp would still be seeing a load impedance half that of the recommended load impedance. This is because if you're driving both amplifiers (something I didn't know you were wanting to do at first), their input impedances are in parallel with each other as far as the preamp's concerned.
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