As Antony says, speaker sensitivity ratings are often fudged, sometimes to the tune of 6 dB or more. Ways of doing this typically involve quoting the number for a pair vs a single speaker and adding "room gain", as oposed to an anechoic measurement. Nothing intrinsically wrong with this if there was a measurement standard and all manufacturers adhered to it.
I think Antony is presuming the speakers are honestly rated, which is to say measured singly at one meter with no room gain, and the power listed relates to listening at 10 feet or 3 meters approximately.
As to high SPL equal to high quality, you are not reading the material carefully enough, SET Man. He does not say that, he is saying that having sufficient headroom that the amp is not clipping even briefly equates to higher quality, all other factors being equal.
I would add that it is my feeling that in order for there not to be any sensation of "strain" in the reproduction, there needs to be a minimum of 20 dB of headroom in hand over the average listing level. This means that for a system to sound relaxed at 85 dB average level (which is fairly loud) it has to be able to perform cleanly at 105 dB - not at 1 meter, but at the listening seat.
The more listening experience I get, the less tolerance I have for the sound of anything straining.