IMHO this is a great example of a tweak that audiophiles obsess over unnecessarily.
The speaker resonates, which in turn excites resonance in the stands, which in turn excites resonance in the floor, which in turn may excite resonance in the equipment rack and your components. So, assuming that you have decently built speaker boxes to minimise their resonance, the main objective is to minimise resonance in the stands. If several methods achieve this, then the secondary objective is to do it with materials that are readily available and as inexpensive as possible.
A real life example.... I built new speakers last October and bought new stands and customised them to ensure optimal speaker height to listening height. Before filling the stands, when I tapped on the metal legs with the metal end of a screwdriver, they would rrrriiinnnnggggg for over THREE seconds. I ran a bead of black silicone around the end of each leg to ensure that the welds were air tight and allowed it to dry and cure for a couple of days. I then filled the legs with fine, kiln dried sand (cheap and readily available at hardware stores) and sealed over the little filler holes with black electrical tap. The black silicone and black electrical tape are not visible on the black metal legs unless you put your head near them. Now when I tap the legs again, there is an extremely short and dull 'clunk' with no audible ring whatsoever. The sand only cost a few bucks and I picked it up at a hardware store less than a mile away from home. So, primary and secondary objectives have been achieved.
As long as your stands are already rigid and stable, adding heavier filling will provide no additional benefits over the sand, except perhaps for being slightly more 'topple proof' if you have large dogs or small children.
So, why over-analyse the problem and spend more money unnecessarily when it can be resolved very quickly and cheaply? I would humbly suggest that you are better off putting your time, thought and money toward areas that will yield potential audible improvements.
