Yeah, samplesj, no panic needed - this is all just fun and games

I noticed the high output and low output Goldring Eroicas are quite different in respect to output (of course), but also
stylus tip mass. The low output version is sports an excellent 0.35mg figures, while the high output version is a piggish 0.60mg. To put it in context, you can buy a $40 Grado or AudioTechnica with lower tip mass than that.
It may well be a good cartridge in many ways, but higher tip mass will
always lead to poorer tracking, all other things being equal. It is simply too much weight to lug around the grooves to accurately and responsively follow the music. Hence, you get that sibilance you mention. It should be particularly noticeable towards the inner grooves and during very loud, demanding passages in classical. Your stylus is
literally jumping out of the groove, creating mistracking and is quite possibly the source of sibilance you are hearing. A $50 Audio-Technica will cure it...but it may not be in all ways better; merely better in tracking.
On input loading, Moving Magnets can range from 10Khz to 75Khz or so. Using Mr. Hagermans cartridge loading calculation you no longer have to guess, tho:
http://www.hagtech.com/loading.htmlYou plug in inductance and total capacitance of your wiring and any in paralell at yoru input to reach the correct loading. Not all moving magnets should be 47K it is just the bog standard setting on all phono's today and it has become the 'norm'. But, it is not optimal, it is just the dumbed-down norm.
HOMC's are actually more correctly loaded closer to 1khZ. Goldring is one of the few cartridge makers that is
very forward with inductance figures. Plug in 0.2 for inductance and your total capacitance of your wiring (you did not mention your table, but if it's Japanese table with captive leads it's likely somewhere around 125). Plug those in and you'll find optimal to be closer to 1khZ. If you have it set too high (like at 47K) you might find rising (ie, brighter) top end and hear more of the surface noise of the record, too - even if it's cleaned quite well.
Hope this helps. Don't jump off a bridge or anything - there are reasons for most things
