in my experience, the room is the biggest contributor. unlike mr. casler, i believe sidewall reflections will kill most illusions of sound coming for outside the speakers. this has been my experience, anyways... if my speakers were close to sidewalls, the 1st item on my agenda would be sound absorption at 1st reflection points.
my present set-up affords me the luxury of having basically *no* sidewall reflections, as the speakers are in front of a ~26' wall. i get sounds from outside the speakers, regardless of the speaker, regardless of toob or s/s amp. source material is the most relevant factor here. i even get lotsa outside-the-speaker sound from my fm tuna!

as far as amplification goes, this seems to affect soundstage depth, more than any other soundstage cue, tubes being best at providing a deep soundstage. having the speakers 6' from the back walls also helps here.
doug s.