I hope it's not too late to respond as I know decisions regarding Klaus' stuff are made quickly (and for good reason!)
I did EXACTLY what you are doing. I purchased a used Stratos plus and spoke to Klaus, afterwhich, I decided on the Extreme upgrade. Let me just say something: do it. Do NOT wait, do NOT pass go, do NOT collect the $200. Instead, put that thing in a box and send it out....just watch lead times as Odyssey is getting busier all of the time.
What I have noticed: Improved focus. Improved depth. Improved ease of presentation. Improved frequency extremes. Improved timbres.
What changed: the slightly original "softness" to the sound is gone and in its place is a greater "clarity." The "warmth" (I note this as balance rather than "warmth", but too each his own) is there, but wait for it to come back...(I had the green boards and changed to the red along with the cap upgrades....perhaps my break in time was greater...) however, the unit should really be powered on all of the time. The unit should be plugged directly in the wall with the Extreme as I found this to be quite different between the Plus and Extreme versions.
I think you will be pleasantly surprised. DO NOT expect a jaw dropping difference at power on...but just wait until the thing gets cooking and opens up.... The bass is better defined and the reserves mean an almost limitless feeling of power.
In a nut shell, it sounds more precise and presents a greater sense of effortlessness to the music, every thread of a performance unveiled and integrated in the whole....something too many amps are missing. More ambient information seems to be reproduced as well.
For reference, my system includes:
Acurus ACD cd player....black gate power supply caps and bypassed caps in output
Conrad Johnson PV12, Mullard Tubes
Odyssey Stratos Extreme Stereo
Selah Audio Scan Speak Reference Speakers(ported SSR w/ lowish sensistivity but extremely easy impedance characteristics)
Groenberg Interconnects amp to pre
Home made speaker cable with 4-14 600v rated Belden wire from Home Depot with monster spade terminations in silver solder
Systemdek IIx/NAD pp2 phono pre/ Grado Blue (or next one up, can't remember)
Audio Dynamics t200 Tuner (not sure if I use it enough to keep it...)