I am down to a few choices here. I have a few requirements though.
1. Must be fully and completely balanced input to output
2. Must have some sort of gain, how much is not too much of an issue, but for those ultra dynamic recordings, a bit is nice.
3. HT Bypass for the wife
4. Intelligent remote control ability, discreet on off, discreet input selection etc.
5. World class sound.
Now, I have the welborne labs discreet atenuator, but there are a few things that I dont like about it that are inherent to the design. It sounds absolutley fantastic however. It's range is too small, the lowest setting can be too loud for a quiet conversation. The loudest setting can be too quiet on some recordings. It lacks 3 and 4 as well.
I dont mind DIY at all (obviously).
The two that are at the top of my list are the Ayre K5-xe, and the TAP. I have not heard the TAP, but I have heard another autoformer pre, and it was very good, but lacked 3 and 4, and the sound was not quite 5. The Ayre has all of the above, with lots of gain, but is short on inputs. I am not sure if 4 will last me forever. As to 5, it is up there, but it definitely has a color. Less than most, but not as good as most of the really good passive solutions I have heard.
-Paul