Wow, we certainly have a spectrum of opinion here ... so Im happy to throw the cat amongst the pidgeons!!
1. Rabbitz says he can get an f3 of 55Hz Mate, you obviously don't listen to much organ music or string bass. As you don't ... you'll be happy with the 5" drivers which you've got; me, I want an appreciable amount of signal at 30Hz (and lower if I can get it!

I wanna hear that 16Hz organ pipe bellowing forth in all its majesty!!
I've measured my Maggie IIIAs; their -3dB point is 40Hz ... but an Orion dual 10" Peerless woofer delivers far more bass than what I have!

Strangely enough, the Maggies deliver the same output level at 30Hz - but the Orions have more more more!!
2. Same with Geoff-AU. He's shown us the mathematical basis for the notes - but he's not interested in hearing all that a string bass can deliver live!

Amaazing??
And the statement "I'm not really convinced that a sub would preserve the spaciousness of your music, if floor standers also killed it" is idiosyncratic, to say the least. Perhaps it was the fault of those particular floor-standers? Or mebbe they weren't set up in the room-space correctly?
My floorstanding (well, actually they're 6' high by 2' wide) Maggies deliver spaciousness than few box speakers approach - but they don't have that Peerless-woofer bass!
So if I want to maintain the spaciousness and the magic ribbon top end ... I gotta have me some cone subs!
3. Back to rimljan99 ... I would suggest that for good music reproduction (ie. not dinosaur footfalls) he needs to add TWO active subs, one near each little speaker. Using only one sub is simply a cost decision - but it compromises your sound.
Tinker agrees with me.
4. As stvnharr has commented, you need a sub with a 24dB LF rolloff AND you need to have this set at a low-enough frequency where the bass voice does not come from the subs. This means a -3dB point of 80Hz, max ... and preferably the -6dB point should be 80Hz or even lower.
Rythmik Audio have such a sub; I've listened to it at DSK's place (mated with his Ambience ribbons) and I liked it so much I ordered one straight away (but I couldn't afford to buy the company!

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Regards,
Andy